That's some pH from a well.Grew up with deep limestone wells and never saw anything above 7.8,hardness was "liquid rock" though.
Simplest way to handle kH is filtering with peat before hand and storing water.
Only problem with R/O is that it pulls almost all the minerals,so you would have to add back trace minerals,or cut it with your well water before hand and keep make-up water stored for water changes.With the hardness you are seeing,you'd go through membranes fast (expensive).
Depending on tank size,it might be cost effective to cut with distilled drinking water if you have access to it in bulk.






